Grandfather story

According to my mum, my grandfather, my mum's dad, was a complete asshole.

He used to hit my grandmother everyday, using belts, hammers. My mum would cry to school everyday because of that.

During meal times, whatever my grandfather said is right. For example, if he say is left, and you say its right, then he would flip the table and throw tantrums.

He also will for no good reason chased my mother with a knife when she was young.

Whats the sadest part?

My grandfather's first wife left him because of his asshole-like personality.

His second wife is my grandmother. My grandmother always gives in to him. EVEN AFTER ALL THE BEATING. When he say he got no money, she gives him her money. ITS SO OBVIOUS THAT EVERYONE KNOWS HE GOES AROUND WOMANIZING AROUND. OUTSIDE GOT SO MANY WIFE AND CHILDREN and still, my grandmother believes it when he said he outside got no girl -.-

Even now, my mum's super pissed off at my grandmother because she STILL gives him money.. WTH right? Thats not all. My grandfather claims he gives my grandmother money now. (obviously so fake) so my mum was like.. "okay, since he giving you money I'll stop giving you money" which was like trying to make my grandmother learn her lesson(which she will NEVER learn).

My grandfather has NEVER paid a single cent to my mother and auntie's education NOR their house. Last time the house they use his name to buy. So its under his name but he totally never paid a single cent. YET HE WANTS TO SELL THE HOUSE?!?! What the pong la

That's the reason why we didn't visit my grandmother this year. The "Monster" was there and my mother probably didn't want us to see him. I've never seen him before. But yet his blood runs in me.


Today, Xiu Qin revealed to me something about myself. That I am stubborn - that I must have my way. This, I could relate to my grandfather, he says circle means circle, square means square. He always has his way. I probably took this bad trait from him.

I also know that I have very bad habits and dirty secrets. Secrets are meant to be kept. While habits can be changed. I hope I'll be trying to change.