Relationship Pyramid.

Well, I've been taught about relationships through this pyramid over here. It is believed that the base of each category represents time as well.


Friendship is the start of the pyramid, and also the base is the longest, which means you'll probably stay as friends for the longest period. Friendship here also should encompass "Get to know..." part also. But I guess the person who made the pyramid separated them for some reason. Friendship should definitely be the 'longest' part before entering into a relationship.

When you're in an exclusive relationship, BGR, there is also a form of friendship there too, that explains why friendship should be the longest period of the relationship (Marriage is a different story, I'l explain it later).


Engagement is next and engagement is not considered a long time. Usually you get engaged, 1-2 years later you'll be married. Now, marriage at the 2nd from top, why is it longer than sex? Simple, because marriage very long, first must go register at ROM, then plan banquet all these etc. But when you register at ROM, I guess you're already officially married. But ROM also take quite a bit of paper work right? Sex takes like 30 minutes only? HAHAHA, I'm sure ROM's paper work is more than 30 minutes.

This relationship pyramid of course symbolizes what happens from friends to marriage. AFTER getting married onwards is not included into the pyramid, if not the pyramid will become an hourglass shape already!

I truly believe in this pyramid, in which what I was taught about relationships. This is my stand and I'm just sharing it. You still may be confused about the pyramid, I'm sorry I'm not good at explanations but just wanted to share this point of view so that maybe you guys can look at things from a different angle.

Something random: Motivation have to come from within.  External factors such as quotes and photos are to kickstart the engine from within. Or more scientifically, to fire up your Central Nervous System. My drive comes from within and I'm going strong, don't let your drive be external that you can't control, because when it fails, you're going to break down and fail. (this is some advice I should be giving myself too! haha)